Ava’s Joyful Life: Remembering Our Chesapeake Retriever
It’s early morning, and the house feels too quiet. I wake up to the reality that Ava, our Chesapeake Bay Retriever, isn’t here to greet us today. She passed away early this morning. As I sit in the silence, I can’t help but think about the joy she brought into our lives, especially to Jennifer, who was always her “person.”
Ava’s Playful Spirit: The Pool and Beyond
Ava was never just a dog. She was a bundle of energy, with a love for life that was contagious. If there was water, Ava would find it. Her happiest moments were spent in the pool, diving in with reckless abandon, leaving splashes that would soak anyone within range. She had a special technique—a sort of doggy cannonball—that never failed to make us laugh.
Jennifer and Ava shared countless hours by each other’s side. While Jennifer watched, Ava would paddle around, occasionally nudging her with her nose, as if to say, “Come on, join the fun!” On land, Ava was just as playful, always ready for a game of fetch or a quick sprint around the yard. But when the fun was over, she’d return to Jennifer’s side, content to just be near her.
Ava’s Loyal Companionship: Cuddles and Comfort
Inside the house, Ava was the queen of comfort. Her dog bed, strategically placed next to Jennifer’s workspace, became her throne. While Jennifer worked, Ava would curl up on her bed, eyes half-closed, content just to be in the same room. Her presence was calming, a reminder that even in the busiest of days, there was always time to stop and enjoy the little things.
Ava had a routine. She’d start the morning with a good stretch, followed by a few minutes of surfing the kitchen counter, just to see what might have been left out. Then, she’d walk to the door for her morning routine, keeping one eye on Jennifer, ready to offer a wagging tail or a nudge if it was needed.
But Ava wasn’t all calm and quiet. She had a fierce bark that she reserved for anyone who dared walk through the door uninvited—or un-petted. Friends, family, even delivery drivers, all received the same treatment. She wouldn’t stop until she got a good scratch behind the ears, as if to say, “You’re welcome here, but don’t forget who’s in charge.”
Ava’s Love for Food: Blueberries and Carrot Sticks
If there’s one thing Ava loved more than swimming and cuddles, it was food. She never met a meal she didn’t like, and she made sure we knew it. Breakfast was her favorite time of day, especially when Jennifer sprinkled a handful of blueberries over her kibble. Ava would wolf it down with such enthusiasm, you’d think it was a gourmet feast.
And then there were the snacks. Carrot sticks were her go-to, a healthy treat that she’d chomp down with satisfaction. But truth be told, Ava wasn’t picky. If it was edible, she wanted it. It became a family joke—”Ava’s surfing again!”—as she’d follow us around the kitchen, eyes wide, waiting for a morsel to drop.
Ava’s Final Moments: A Quiet Goodbye
After 12 years and 4 months, Ava’s time with us came to an end. It happened quietly, almost as if she didn’t want to disturb us. I’d like to think she chose the early morning because it was her favorite time of day—the world still, the promise of a new day ahead.
We gathered around her, Jennifer’s hand resting gently on her head. There was so much we wanted to say, but in that moment, words felt unnecessary. Ava had always understood us without them. She knew she was loved, and she had given us everything she had. Now, she was at peace.
The Legacy of Ava: A Joyful Memory
Ava may no longer be with us physically, but her spirit lives on. We see her in the places she loved—the pool, her bed by Jennifer’s desk, the kitchen where she begged for treats. Her bark still echoes in our minds, her playful splashes still make us smile.
Jennifer feels her absence most deeply. Ava wasn’t just a pet; she was a companion, a friend, a source of unconditional love. The bond they shared was unique, forged through years of laughter, comfort, and shared moments. Jennifer knows that Ava is still with her, watching over her, wagging her tail in approval as life continues.
We’ll always remember the joy Ava brought into our lives. She taught us to appreciate the simple things—a sunny day by the pool, a cuddle on a rainy afternoon, the happiness found in a well-loved snack. She left us physically, but Ava’s memory will stay with us, bringing comfort and warmth for the rest of our lives.
REST IN PEACE AVA – 9/27/24